My (21F) boyfriend (27M) takes hours to message me back
I’ve just started a relationship with someone new It’s been about 2 months, Everything is going well apart from the fact he takes hours, sometimes even over 24 hours to message me back.
Hes told me he’s just not really on his phone, I’ve known this man for a few years now and he’s always been a trustworthy person, he says he’s not ignoring me and assures me that he’s simply not on his phone and this doesn’t reflect how he feels about me.
Although I appreciate him not being glued to his phone all the time, waiting hours for a response back has been causing me alot of anxiety and honestly just frustration.
I’ve told him this, yet I’m still waiting upwards of 6 hours for a reply from him each time I send him a message.
It has consistently been like this throughout the entire time we’ve been seeing each other.
Currently it’s been over 12 hours since he’s been online and he’s stuck at home with covid, so it’s not like he’s busy.
Whenever we are actually together in person, it’s perfect, but when I leave it’s like he falls off the face of the earth. I’m just unsure what to do at this point, any advice or thoughts on the way he’s acting?