My ex boyfriend (M29) is forcing me to pay back all the money he spent on me (F22) in our relationship
early in out relationship, we would sneak around and have fun and our relationship was pretty much toxic, I have to beg for a little time for him to spend with me or to talk to me…
he was distant and always “busy” and he wrote down every single thing he paid for me or bought me as a gift.
when we broke up he started demanding money back, but it’s just so stupid and he keeps threatening me to sue me, because he has “proof” that he lent me money, but he just wrote down everything he paid (trips, movies, festivals, restaurants, clothes…)
mind that I also paid as well, but never asked for my money back. the money I actually did ask him, I already returned.
Is this stupid behaviour or am I tripping? Who’s in the fault here? Can he sue me for this?
Netizens’ comments
- Lmao those were gifts and he has no evidence they weren’t. Let him sue and give the judge something to laugh about.
- He can sue and get laughed out of court
- Take screenshots of his messages to you so you have proof in the future, but otherwise just block him and ignore him. He’s not going to sue you, and no lawyer would take his case anyway. If he sues you, he’ll lose. Move on and forget this loser.
- Tell him to go ahead and sue you. He does not have a leg to stand on.
- Block him on everything. You don’t owe him anything. He won’t sue you he is just doing this to keep the communication open between you. It’s a form of control.
- These were gifts. Block this dude from contacting you and move on with your life, OP.