My ex of 6 years messaged me last night
I loved him when I was in school. Asked him out, went out for 3 months. Those 3 months were outright awful.
He was emotionally closed off, never wanted to call me, never texted first, never told me he missed me.
Looking back at it, I can’t even call it dating. If I didn’t text him first, he didn’t message for weeks. I told him I loved him, and he told me to stop being a distraction in his life.
Then why say yes to going out with me?! That’s when I decided that I came first and never messaged him ever again after saying I was done.
He texted me yesterday night, after 6 whole years. He misses me, he feels the same, he didn’t have the courage to say it all this time, he wants to go out with me.
The audacity?! I don’t even know him anymore. I have had no contact with him. Why now? What makes him think he can waltz back into my life after all these years?
There’s no way I’m going back.
- “New phone, who dis?”
- said he misses you? after 6 years have passed and you only dated for 3 months? my bs radar is screaming. this dude sounds like he’s desperately trying to get some skin.
- Don’t let this be round 2 of what happened last time. He’s not worth it