My partner took my underwear and I don’t know what to do
So I (19F) have been sleeping with a guy (19f) and the last time I let him know after that I couldn’t find my underwear.
We looked but since we were just at my house, I let him leave and I kept looking. I couldn’t find them anywhere, so I kind of gave up and decided the method would just be to keep an eye out.
Me and this guy have some mutual friends, and yesterday I let them know that I couldn’t find my underwear and one responded with “oh yeah he found them”
Now I don’t know what to do. It’s not like he’s my boyfriend so it’s really weird to me that he’s just keeping my underwear, and weirder that he didn’t tell me that he had found them.
I kind of want them back but I don’t wanna come off as rude because despite the fact that I think its strange, I would definitely sleep with him again.
Do I just let this guy keep my underwear?
- The dude lied. Time to find another fish in the sea that doesn’t steal your underwear and lie about it.
- It’s not the fact he took them, if that doesn’t bother you then whatever…it’s the fact he lied and continued to lie about it that is throwing up a red flag.
- Call him out on it for sure and get them back. Let him know how you feel. Keep sleeping with him if you want to. Maybe gift him a pair at some point if you’d like. I’m sure he’d appreciate it
- it’s…weird that your mutual friends know about it