does being flat chested means i am bound to get criticised?
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context: Recently, a couple of my guy friends made a joke about how flat I was right in my face. But, at that moment I didn’t know how to react so I just pretended like I didn’t hear it even though I felt like breaking down so badly.
I know having a big chest is attractive to many guys but what’s wrong with being flat-chested? why do people have to point them out? does being flat-chested matter so much??
What am I supposed to do in the future if they make such an insensitive joke about me again… I feel the need to stand up for myself yet again I feel like they are just stating the facts so is it just my fault that I can deal with criticism and my insecurities?
Netizens’ comments
- mean people will just find anything to criticize you, doesn’t even have to be about chest size
- Nothing wrong with you lah, its normal to feel like shit when ppl talk about you like that. Its not a bad thing to be flat, and its not a good think to be curvy, it just is what it is.
- Idk if they’re just trying to pull your leg in a “bro” way but just tell them that it made you uncomfortable and i guarantee they wont do it again. If they do, its probably time to find some new friends.