I didn’t know I was his rebound till he ghosted me. I was seeing this guy for a few months. He was a model and very good looking.
He was a friend of my schoolmate. I regret getting together with him too soon else I would have noticed something wasn’t right. He pursued me not long after we first met. He bought me flowers and chocolates and cute stuff during that time. I really thought he liked me. He brought me to meet his family and friends and I let him meet my family too. He even talked about getting a pair of couple rings but I refused. I wanted to wait till we reach our first year anniversary or a special occasion. But he surprised me with a simple ring for me to wear anyway. I felt what we had was so intense.
A few more months into the relationship he mentioned he needed to meet his ex to settle some issues because they share a pet and she can’t keep the pet anymore. He told me about his ex when I asked but I guess I asked the wrong questions. I didn’t know he broke up with her just weeks before meeting me. Then weeks past, he started to contact me less. He took longer to reply me. Once he arranged to meet me and failed to show up. I was worried because he was uncontactable. I actually thought he got into an accident and called a mutual friend.
Only to find out he was with that mutual friend. He told me he forgot about our date and asked me to go home. He didn’t even say sorry to me. He said he needed a few days to himself. I waited a week and called his phone because he was not responding to my texts. A girl picked up his call. I was furious. I asked if she was his ex. She said no, she’s someone else. He can’t even be bothered to tell me it’s over.
I kept wondering what did I do wrong. I felt so lost for a while. I managed to slowly get over it and started to feel happy again. I even started to meet other people and had put him in the past until he texted me. He wanted to meet. I told him to leave me alone and blocked him.
Just when I’m happy again why is he back? I feel I am back to the day when he made another person tell me it’s over. He used me. Why is he doing this to me? Please don’t buy a girl a ring and get a middleman to break up with her. It’s hurtful and disgusting and plain horrible.