My ex-bf has repeatedly threatened to hurt and kill me and my family since our breakup last year.
I’ve severed contact with him, but he keeps sending me emails acting as if nothing has happened.
I feel deeply disturbed and scared when I receive his emails, I couldn’t concentrate on my work and studies. I need to read his emails as I need to know what he might do next and be prepared when he decides to carry out his threats. His capacity to follow through on these threats leaves me constantly anxious, even in my own home. I’ve made a police report and consulted a psychologist. Their suggestion was to apply for a protection order, but I think it’s very likely to escalate the situation or might trigger him to act. I still hold onto hopes that he will eventually stop harassing me as time passes.
He’s a Singapore PR and is currently working in another country, I genuinely hope that he doesn’t decide to return to Singapore, or if he does, stay away from me.
Here are what netizens think:
- Please do the people of Singapore a favour and report this to ICA. They are able to revoke permanent residency status. He looks threatening.
- A protection order is your best option. He can escalate after the protection order if he wants. He has to be mindful that if he is charged for violating the order, he is going to lose his PR and be deported. Either he stops his nonsense, or he is kicked out of the country. Either way, he won’t be able to harass you anymore.
- Get a PPO and report him to police . And get his PR status being revoked