One of my best friends admitted that he thinks of me when he sleeps with his gf
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We ended up together at a friends house, at the end of a party, smoking outside and watching the stars. We got to talking about relationships and how things can get boring after time, and he just blurted out he pretends she’s me in bed sometimes.
It confused the hell out of me. I’m in a happy relationship and as far as I know he is too. I just don’t see any scenario where we can be the friends we were before. Am I overreacting?
Netizens’ comments
- The conversation took that turn so he could feel out your interest.
- He was absolutely testing the waters..
- Maipulative flattery it’s called. He wants to do you. Don’t fall for it. Keep your distance.
- You’re not overreacting. You’re in a relationship you describe as happy and he tried to push the boundary – you owe it to your relationship to cut the cord immediately.
- just stop talking to the guy. Those are thoughts that you don’t have to tell other people. Disgusting. Go No Contact.
- Don’t become the side piece, it’ll ruin your self-value and once you know it, you don’t mind being one repeatedly until you end up in some TikTok story about how the man left his wife for the side piece and now her children is being mean to their step mom cause a rift in the family.
- I don’t think you’re overreacting at all but I also bet he feels really embarrassed. This is definitely something you can choose to ignore if you want but I would definitely understand if it made you uncomfortable to the point where you don’t want to be his friend anymore.
- I would feel pretty good if a friend told me that, definitely a confidence boost to say the least but it doesn’t mean I’d share the same feelings towards him or her and I would tell them I don’t have the same feelings sry.