he was turned off by my virginity then wants to sleep with me ?
I was seeing a guy and we got on good. I told him im a virgin when he tried to go too far (stopped him)and He found my virginity and no experience a turn off .
He looked angry when I told him. We stopped talking for a few days. He is in my work building and he’d make rude comments to me there once saying my trousers were like old ladies etc. Commented on my makeup asking what I did to my face. I ignored it.
I continued to ignore him and suddenly he talks to me and at this point were cordial. He asks if I want him to “de-virgin me ” . I was very confused since we stopped communicating and I’d assumed it was over.
I don’t understand why he’s constantly being mean to me when i was clearly a turn off for him ?. He always has a comment to make and I’d feel upset after. I try my best to ignore
Netizens’ comments
- Don’t lose your virginity to him, he’s a jerk.
- He’s trying to wear down your self-esteem so you’ll end up sleeping with him to get his validation & he’ll treat you like crap during and after. Avoid!
- stay away from him for your own sake. He’s the guy who will tell everyone in the building he took your virginity
- He’s negging you, trying to make you insecure so you’ll see him like a source of validation. He’s manipulating you so he can have his way with you and then most likely he’ll just leave. Be careful
- He’s negging you. Move on to someone who’s actually nice and cares about you.