My bf seems very nua – what should I do?
Hi, seeking genuine advice here. I am F (26) and have been with my Bf (26) for around 10 months. I realize there is an issue between us.
Everytime we meet on one day during the weekend, we would just end up at mostly my home (because its has lesser people), then watching Netflix, eating at home and sleeping. To me, it does feel very nice because we can be so chill with each other and live like a family, but on the other hand I sort of question this because we are still a new couple but we are not going for dates out. The only date we go for is food dates.
When I see my friends’ social media, I do envy them sometimes when I see their stories of them going on various activities with their bf e.g. to events, Sentosa, game arena, I do wonder why I did not experience this.
I feel that without these date experiences, it feels that I am not really enjoying the full package of the relationship. Yes I did bring up and suggest for places to go to during our dates, and he is always willing to accompany me. But I do not see him initiating much ideas, which made me feel that he is not putting in effort, the thing when the guy gets you and then he stops putting in effort flashed past my mind.
Initially when we first started, his initiations were also food dates only, so I am not sure if it is because he is not an explorer kind of person or what. Somehow I just feel down about it, any experiences or advice to share? Thanks in advance