This happened fairly recently. I was on a night out with couple of my friends. Nothing out of the ordinary, just three single ladies going to a club to dance, have fun and see where the night takes us.
There were many guys trying to approach us, which is completely normal because we’re at a club, but one guy stood out. He was not super handsome or anything, but just the way he approached me was very smooth.
the main thing was that he did not try to just buy me drinks, get me drunk and f me right then and there haha. Exaggerating of course, but you get the point. He was a tourist (don’t remember which country).
Long story short, the nigh was going well and we ended up at my place as he was staying at a hostel. We started making out and ripping each other’s clothes off.
When the moment came we both waited for and he just tried to stick it in and I pulled back and said “Do you have a condom?”.
He said “No, don’t worry, I’m clean” and proceeded to try to stick it again and again and I kept dodging his D like Floyd Mayweather for good 5 seconds.
It actually looked kind of funny. The way he was doing it was not really aggressive, looked more like a guy who just desperately wants to get laid.
Then I said “Wait, stop, stop, I’m not f-ing you without a condom”. He got all in his feelings and with an almost surprised expression in his face asked “Why?”
For the next 20 minutes or so we were literally sitting in bed and he was trying to convince me to let him put it in without a condom while getting more upset and frustrated by the minute.
I told him that there is a 7/11 nearby. It’s 15 min walk, we can go get condoms there, but he would still insist on doing it without one.
By the end he got frustrated, started kind of shaming me, saying why would I even invite him to my place if I would not f him, bla, bla, bla……like dude, seriously?
I understand it kind of kills the vibe a bit, but lets go to 7/11, buy condoms and we’re good. What’s the problem.
So yeah, he finally ended up leaving and it was just so weird for me. Why would he be almost begging to smash specifically without a condom. C’mon dude, 15min walk there and back and we’re good.
He did not get aggressive or make me feel threatened, it was more like talking to a child who’s upset on why you should wear a seat belt.
That was a first one for me lol