I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past three years and he loves to pinch and twist my ‘raisins’ hard, like he is tuning the radio.
He says it’s the only way he can get ‘hard’ and I have been too scared to tell him to stop. Every time he does it, I flinch in pain, but he just laughs it off and continues.
They are constantly swollen and sore and I have tried every remedy I could think of, from cold compresses to massage, but nothing seems to work.
At first, I thought it was a temporary problem but after a while, I noticed that my ‘raisins’ were always swollen and sore.
I went to the doctor to get it checked out and they said it was caused by the rough handling my ‘raisins’ were getting.
I felt so embarrassed and ashamed that I had let this happen to me. I asked my boyfriend to stop, but he just brushed it off and said I was being too sensitive.
I was so angry and frustrated that I broke up with him.
Unfortunately, even after the break-up, my ‘raisins’ are still swollen and sore. I have tried all sorts of remedies, but nothing seems to work.
I’m starting to think that this is something I’m just going to have to live with for the rest of my life.
It’s really upsetting to think that something that was supposed to be pleasurable turned into such a burden for me.
I feel so embarrassed and ashamed for letting this happen to me and I can’t help but blame myself for not speaking up sooner.
My swollen ‘raisins’ are a constant reminder of my mistake and it’s something I will have to live with for the rest of my life.