My boyfriend of 2years is a narcissist, cheated and was violent towards me. Everytime I tell him I want to break up, he cry and beg and apologize about how much he regrets his actions and won’t do it again. Recently, violent events occurred again and ofcourse I felt again.
After tell him off multiple times he still didn’t want to let go, even after blocking him, he would make new instagram and telegram accounts to contact me asking for forgiveness. Telling me that this time would be different, that he would go for anger management therapy, see a psychiatrist etcetc. That if I just give him another chance to chase me back, he would show me that he really is putting in alot of effort to change.
So the question is, does seeing a psychiatrist/ counselor actually work for anger management? Will it be or any help? Or should i just not have any hope in it.
After all, I am not young anymore and have already wasted 2yrs.
Here are what netizens think:
- Once violence is in the picture, it’s a dealbreaker. And should be the only factor you need to leave. Plenty of other fish in the ocean. Just let this one go.
- Most men don’t change. The fact that he was violent towards you just shows that he doesn’t love you.Why do you need to give chances to men who doesn’t even love you? Are you so desperate? Whether psychiatrist or counselling works or not, I won’t bet on it. (You alrdy stake 2 yrs on this guy, you are asking if it’s ok to stake another 20 yrs? LOL)
- If u end up with this guy and you guys plan on having kids,he’s going to be the father of your precious children. He’s already proven multiple times, he can be violent. Sure, what if he doesn’t hurt you anymore but what’s stopping him from taking out his anger on the children? Also all these times you’re wasting staying with him, is time you could have spent finding someone who will treat you right