A netizen shared how her boyfriend told her that he is turned on by her friend more than her and she is shocked.
Here is the story
Boyfriend shocked me when he told me my friend turned him on more than I do. Am I just complaining?
Me (20F) and my boyfriend (21M) have been going out 10 and a bit months. We didn’t get intimate together straight away and first did it only a few weeks ago.
I was a virgin before that so I’m not experienced at all.
Before dating me, my bf was dating one of my friends. It was awkward at first but we’re all okay now. Anyway so last night I tried my best to make him “shoot”, but in the end he told me to “just stop” so I did.
Then he said “your friend turned me on so much more than you do”. I was so shocked by him saying that I didn’t know what to say back. He got dressed and left the house and we haven’t spoken yet.
I just feel so confused about how I feel. I know I’m not as attractive as my friend but I didn’t think he would say that.
Am I just being a baby and getting upset over nothing? I understand he is probably fed up and he might have just said it in the moment.
Netizens’ comments
- Who says that? Sounds down right malicious to me.
- Just leave, OP. Don’t even argue, just leave. He’s just going to say “Well what was I supposed to do, lie?” or some other idiotic response.
Leave him. No one who loves you would say that to you.
- Sounds like he stuck around long enough for you to give him your virginity and now he’s done playing boyfriend.
You can and will find someone WAY better than him who protects your feelings and doesn’t say things intentionally to hurt you.
There is no other reason to say that than to hurt you.