A guy shared how he talks to guys and girls differently, and that he talked to his crush like a guy and ruined his own chances.
Here is the story:
“Hi guys, I kinda like this girl. Currently, we are just friends. I think the conversations we have are going pretty well. I think I just messed it up and I need some advice on how to recover.
I think the way I talk with guys is different than the way I talk to girls. I can say pretty much whatever I want with guys but with girls, it is different. With guys, I can call them a dumb moron and we would still be the best of friends.
I accidentally went into the male version of talking to this girl. I did not realise until after a while. I think I was a little cocky. LIn one conversation, I might have said something that would have made me seem like a loser and I might have also said something bad about something she cares about.
I cannot really ask her how she feels because we are not that close yet and it might be awkward. I had put in quite some effort over months to slowly get into the same group as her and work my way to having one on one conversations with her. I think I just messed up the whole thing.
Did I just ruin my chances with her? Do girls remember things like this? How do I recover and make the rs work? Thank you.”
Editor’s note: Just be yourself for crying out loud…