I am 29F and he’s 30M. We got to know each other from a dating app, and we’ve been dating for the past 3 months (approx 15-16 dates so far). FYI, it’s a first for the both of us (we’ve never been in any relationships before).
He’s a chivalrous man and I really do like him. He even remembers everything that I have mentioned before (i.e. what I like/dislike, what I’d like to do and etc) and plans all the dates accordingly.
He did mention that he kinda likes me and would like to continue going out with me after our 3rd or 4th date, which I agreed.
Fast forward to our most recent date, he said that he really likes me, but he’s not prepared to commit because I’m looking for a serious relationship that hopefully will lead to a marriage eventually. He says that’s he’s also looking for something serious but not until that extent (marriage) yet.
I really do like him, but I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to remain as friends (with the hope that he will change his mind?)
Because I’m afraid I’ll fall harder for him the more time we spend together.
Your advice is much appreciated!