What i wore in front of my boyfriend’s friend?
Two days ago my (21F) boyfriend (23M) had his friends over, I knew they were coming since he’d told me the night before.
It was really warm (surprisingly) and all I was wearing was a sports bra (sort of low cut?) and kinda tight shorts.
I sat on the sofa next to my boyfriend for a little while, whilst they played some games on the tv and then I went to get some lunch.
By the time I was finished eating they had left and my boyfriend completely blew up at me. He said I was dressed like that for attention, i made all his friends stare at me, I knew what i was doing and that I should have covered up as soon as I saw them.
He stormed out and since he came home he’s barely spoken to me.
should I have worn something less revealing?
Netizens’ comments
- Wear what you like, its sportwear not suggestive lace underwear so the wore it for attention angle is off. Dont see his issue tbh If his mates were leering over you thats on them not you
- I think people are definitely getting empowerment and appropriateness mixed up. She can wear what she wants, that’s true. However, covering up when guests are over is the appropriate thing to do. Like someone said just a t-shirt or something when you walked out of your room or something. Your boyfriend should not have yelled, I agree. But like I said just a shirt or something would have sufficed just when you left the room.
- As a male, I’ve been over to friends’ houses countless times when their significant others wore something similar. It’s totally normal. Your boyfriend is overreacting.
You are both still fairly young, so it might be worth just having an adult conversation about it. If he’s uncomfortable with you wearing that, it’s his problem. If his friends make suggestive comments about you to him, they’re not good friends.