I had a guy at a club ask me if I had ADHD because I didn’t “maintain proper eye contact with him while he’s speaking.”
He was dead serious. He then proceeded to go on a random rant about how he hates girls with BPD, and how his ex girlfriend had it.
This dude took my hand and raised it in the air, said “this is what girls with bpd do to you, they lift you up and love you to gain your trust…” then he dropped my hand, “and then they destroy you and manipulate you into hating yourself.”
I told him I bet he didn’t think I had BPD when he hit on me, his response was: “well I dated a girl with bpd so I know what your kind of people are like.”
I then told him I had a girlfriend and he straight up said “I don’t believe in that. I don’t believe in girls dating girls or guys dating guys.
I walked away lol. Talking to him felt like I was speaking to a sociopath. The level of entitlement was unreal.
To make things even worse, he went up to my friend later (assuming since his advancements didn’t work with me), and tried hitting things off with her.
She obviously turned him down for saying those things to me and he was genuinely confused. My friend asked him to step away because he was all up in her space, he responded by accusing her of having OCD because she’s “afraid of germs.”