Do you think my GF is a spendthrift?
My gf always insists to pay for all our dates so far. We are dating with marriage in mind. But after three months of dating her, I realise she may be too much of a spendthrift.
She likes to hire rides to get around and doesn’t like to take bus or MRT and have an expensive gym membership.
Yesterday we went to a shop and she bought a slipper for more than $100. She also travels frequently and have been to Spain, Italy, France, Switzerland and New Zealand.
I only earning 2.1 k per month now. Since she earns much more than me and can afford her lifestyles herself, do you all think that it is actually not a problem?
- If you explain where you’re coming from and she’s ok with it and you’re ok with it; all good. Have a talk. The guy doesn’t have to be the one that makes more/provides…
- i won’t be complaining bro if she’s ok with it. not like she’s forcing to pay for her stuff
- Not a problem if it’s a lifestyle she can afford and is used to. Just go with the flow.