A netizen shared how because he goes to the gym “quite a bit”, his chest is bigger than his girlfriend and he is wondering if he should break up with her.
Here is the story:
“Hi guys, I need some genuine advice. Am a dude in my early 20s and in a relationship for abt 2 years.
She is kind and I appreciate her character and our chemistry. But there is one thing that is bothering me greatly.
Though I have not seen it, I am super bothered by the fact that my GF’s chest seems smaller (super flat) compared to my chest (I gym quite a bit + naturally big chest ).
I know we should not be superficial and ought to look beyond physical beauty and bodily imperfections but I am afraid that I will not be aroused (or even make her feel inadequate) when we sleep together in the future.
What should I do? Should we talk about it? Should we break up?”
Editor’s note:
First and foremost, it’s important to realize that physical attraction isn’t the only factor that contributes to a successful relationship. It’s normal to be concerned about physical differences between you and your significant other, but remember that it’s not the be-all and end-all.
I think it’s important to talk to your girlfriend about your concerns. It can be a difficult conversation to have, but it’s important to be honest with her about how you feel. It’s also important to discuss how the two of you can work together to make sure that physical attraction isn’t an issue in your relationship.
If you’re worried about her feeling inadequate, it’s important to talk to her about it. Let her know that you still find her attractive and that her physical features don’t impact your love for her. It’s also important to let her know that you understand that physical attraction isn’t the only thing that matters in a relationship.
If you don’t feel comfortable talking to your girlfriend about it, you can also talk to a professional. A therapist can help you to work through your feelings and to come to terms with the differences between you and your girlfriend. They can also help you to think of ways to make your relationship work despite the physical differences.
Finally, it’s important to remember that physical attraction isn’t the only thing that contributes to a successful relationship. If the two of you have a strong connection and can communicate openly and honestly, those are the foundations of a successful relationship.
At the end of the day, it’s important to remember that physical attraction isn’t the only thing that matters. If the two of you have a strong emotional connection and can communicate openly and honestly, that’s what will keep your relationship strong.