A guy shared how he was dumped by his girlfriend and has been crying, she called him a miser despite him bringing her out to a restaurant for dinner.
Here is the story
While people are out there celebrating Valentine’s Day with their other half, here I am crying in my own room.
I recall that a week ago, she called for a breakup. I could remember that look on her face, full of disappointment. The fact is that there is something I have not done very well in her eyes.
We first met in the year 2018. Whenever we went dating, she would treat me to good food and present. Basically she will shower me with the love that I never had before. I dont even have to give her any presents, contrary to what other guys had to do.
However, she started to change in the year 2020 (After Circuit Breaker). She has become less easy going, very different from the nice girl I knew. I remember that when I proposed to have dinner with her at a coffee shop instead of those atas restaurant, she will show me the disappointed look and after the dinner, not even a word of ‘thank you’ from her.
At other times (Once or twice per month), she will be swiping my credit card to buy those Gucci, Prada whatever la handbags. This was done without my permission.
Also, there was once where I wanted to treat her to an exquisite birthday dinner at my house. I made my own version of Italian pasta (Using noodles that were about to expire but hey, wastage is bad right??) Buying those real Italian pasta is not cheap anyway.
For the exotic wine, I used the one which my friend gifted me a year ago. For the French toast, I used the Gardenia loaves. The idea is to be creative and isnt that what girls like?
When she turned up for that dinner, she was extremely livid. She told me that she was very disappointed with the dinner and it was so fake as it didnt even give her the out of the world experience. I told her that having a meal at the restaurant is not cheap but she called me a miser.
Through all these incidents, she told me that she had it enough and that I cant bear to part with my money. She didnt use to be like this. I am saving up because money is not easily earned and I am planning for our future. That being said, the relationship ended.
Tonight I am crying in my room, not because of sadness. They are tears of joy. In fact I am not alone. I had the companionship of my seemingly endless hundred-dollar notes stacked vertically. I was busy counting and kissing my notes from 7pm to 1159pm and I was never this happy before! The thought of the potential savings from getting rid of this white elephant simply puts a smile on my face.
To all the fella guys out there, YOU are in control of YOUR finances! Not your gal!