I don’t know why I have this effect on women but anyone’s help would be appreciated.
Forever ago at work a woman was randomly giving me the cold shoulder. She’d go on about how nice and funny I am but out of nowhere she just wanted nothing to do with me at all. I’d try to talk to her and she wouldn’t even look at me. I didn’t even say or do anything weird or creepy, she just woke up one day “You know what? F that guy”
But it eventually passed. After I want to say almost 2 months her attitude towards me went back to normal. To this day I still have no idea what it was, because it was JUST me that she was like that to.
It’s happening again now with a different woman. New chick at work, ADORABLE AS ALL HELL, MY GOD WORDS CAN’T DESCRIBE HOW ADORABLE SHE IS. ESPECIALLY HER SMILE. I introduced myself one day, she already knew my name and when we’d be working together. A couple days here and there we’d chat and bullshit with each other. I could make her laugh and giggle, she liked talking with me, yadda yadda. I’d catch her staring at me a few times here and there, and when I looked back at her she’d slowly put on a smile.
But out of nowhere she is giving me the cold shoulder. Only thing I can recall me doing that could come off as creepy, is one day I proposed going on our lunch break at the same time, just for chats sake, she even agreed. We didn’t end up doing that as she went out with her girl friends, but that’s not even when the shift in her attitude towards me happened. Next day she was still giddy and excitable around me. I went to give her a hand, I will never forget the cutesy look that she gave me. At the end of the day, I said I’d see her next time, she excitedly agreed, and giggled as she walked away from me.
Fast forward to next time we’re both working, and she’s been giving me the cold shoulder. Like before with the other one, it is JUST me. She won’t even look at me when I’m trying to make conversation, I’ll ask her a question to try and spark a conversation and she will just answer in 3 words or less. I can make everyone in the room burst out laughing as she just sits there with a soulless gaze staring in the distance. It seems like I walk in the room and her mood is ruined.
Am I just vagina repellent? It’s weird this has happened twice.