A guy shared a story of how he was talking to this girl which he knew from a dating app for a period of time and was really interested in her but lazy to make any moves because she stays far way from him.
For story’s sake, he stays in the East of Singapore while the girl stays in the West and he does not have a driving license and therefore he thinks that it is very far.
It is because of this situation that he went to befriend another girl from the app and the second girl is now into him but he wishes he was with the first girl instead.
Here is the story
“Not sure what to do. Maybe you have some advice for me? Not today but very recent.
I’ve been talking to this girl (A) for months now. I’ve been afraid to commit for a few reasons, but mostly because we live far away from each other.
I stay in the east of Singapore and she stays in the west, coupled with the fact which I don’t have a driving license so it is very troublesome to always meet her.
I like her a lot and we literally talk everyday. I really think she could be the love of my life.
Well I got in my head too much thinking it can’t work living so far away. I decided I needed something more physical. I got back on an app, met this girl (B) and took her out.
Completely ghosted A without explanation. I was having a good time with B, but it wasn’t until B called me Mr Right that I felt the gravity of the situation.
I want to be A’s Mr Right, not this random girl I just met.
I went home after the date and couldn’t bring myself to call A. I felt guilty and thought that because didn’t commit I wouldn’t feel guilty.
I called A later and I told her about it. It was weighing on my conscience. Now she wants nothing to do with me and idk if I can save this.”
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