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GUY DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY GF YET BECAUSE HE HAVEN’T ‘TRIED THE GOODS’

A boyfriend who probably doesn’t love me

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I have been my boyfriend for 6 years, spanning across my late 20s and now near-mid-30s. Pretty much my prime time.

I thought we were going to get married because we talked about it and even went through house renovation together.

But recently, I realised that he probably doesn’t love me even though he says he does.

He made a “promise” to my parents that he would ask for marriage within 3-5 years, told me several times that “it’s coming” but obviously it didn’t came.

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He lied that he had bought the ring but couldn’t find the right timing because of my “timely questioning” that ruined surprises, when he barely even selected a ring, let alone buying it.

And now he drops the bomb that he doesn’t feel physically attracted to me anymore because we don’t have s- (I abstained from pre-marital s- and I informed him right when he asked me to be gf, told him to think carefully before committing).

He thinks that while everything between a couple is important, so is s-. If the s- is not right, everything else cannot be “perfect”.

So from how I see it, basically he’s saying that no test drive, no consideration of purchase. Even with test drive, no guarantee of purchase.

I feel like I’ve been played for the past 6 years and I’m now in my mid-30s. I feel foolish for loving a guy for so long who actually doesn’t love me.

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I’m now way past the prime age and now an old hag.

Will I still be able to find somebody who is willing to love me for who I am, beyond just physical, get married and be happy in this superficial world where only young girls are in demand?

I seriously feel so lost and depressed.

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