I dumped my girlfriend because of her friends, not because of anything she did.
I’ve been with my gf for just over a year and overall she’s a nice person but her friend’s are absolutely cancerous.
The main ringleader has a kid and muscled her long term boyfriend into an “open relationship”. She parties severals times a week and bangs other dudes whilst the pathetic wormy doormat of a boyfriend looks after their 2 year old. The other one routinely cheats on her fiance and even slept with one of my bros in a bathroom stall the first time my friends and my girlfriend’s friends hung out.
They’ve pushed her into starting an onlyfans and all sorts of other grotesque shit, but my girlfriend justifiably tells them to kick rocks because she’s in a relationship. This only results in them throwing “controlling boyfriend” accusations my way. My girlfriends last two boyfriends were complete deadbeats, one of whom was a recovering addict, so this is the only “normal” relationship she’s been in for the past 5 years.
I knew it was only be a matter of time before she caved. You can’t be around serial cheaters and dirtbags without dabbling with it yourself at some point. And I can’t exactly tell her to cut off her childhood friends without some sort of resentment festering, so I did us both a favour and ended the relationship. She freaked out but I just told her I was in a “dark place” and couldn’t be in a relationship. I didn’t have it in me to tell her it was because her friends are actual human toilets.
This isn’t the first girl I’ve broken up with because their friends.