A netizen shared how he is fed up of listening to his girlfriend for complaining about her new job all the time, and he wants to tell her that she is a “negative person” to be around with.
Here is the story
How do you tell your partner know she is being a negative person to be around?
For context, she has started working in her new job and has little time for me and we do not meet often (1 or 2 x a month?), but when we do, I am constantly having to listen to her complains that work is stressful or she is checking email and texting her work friends.
When we message and text, it also links back to work and she will comment that she is busy or that she has no time.
I find it affecting the mood of our relationship and I am tired from hearing it, but what could I do, as she says this is normal and I am not understanding?
Netizens’ comments
- She sounds stressed. Do something nice for her lah! As her partner you should try to cheer her up… not complain about her complaining.
- Dear OP you are selfish. You just want her to meet you in order to make yourself happy. But have you ever think about her feelings? Such as showing concerns on her work, daily activities and her well being?Relationship is not just about meeting up all the time.
- When y’all meet up, you try complaining about your work also lah. So the whole date is just the two of you complaining about work the whole time lol…
- God forbid girlfriends rant about the stresses of new job, because girlfriends supposed to just be happy and ready to serve huh?