I (22M) found out my girlfriend (20F) was cheating on me with the guy she told me not to worry about.
I loved this girl. I bought her everything she wanted, we lived together and I loved her. We had a pretty rocky relationship and today I decided that I was going to fix our relationship.
She had been staying at her father’s house for the past two days and so I decided that she needed to come home.
When I got to her father’s to get her I discovered a hickey on her neck. I knew about a guy that she hadn’t talked to for two-ish years and I quickly msgd him on Instagram.
He ended up sending me the msgs between her and him and she had been lying to him for over a week saying she was single.
I still love this girl but I don’t know what to do. We’ve already broken up but I feel like I can still fix this.
Netizens comments
- Dude, just no. She doesn’t care about the relationship with you. She told a guy she was single and has a hickey from him. The cheater should be the one wanting to fix it, not the one being cheated on if it’s to be fixed. Move on, you’ll find someone way better than her because you deserve better.
- Don’t let her walk over you. Have some self respect. You really going to let someone treat you like that? It’s probably why she did it, because she knew you loved her to much to leave her. Heck, she left evidence on her neck because she didn’t care enough for your feelings. Now do what every man does after being cheated on. Workout, focus on your career and stay single until the universe sends a girl to you.