Found out my Girlfriend of 10 years cheated on me on the day my grandma died
I (M28) found out that my girlfriend of 10 years cheated on me with several people.
I found out about it through a friend who found her profile on tinder. I was at his place because i lost my grandma that day and I needed a friend. first he didnt wanna show it to me on that day but he came to the conclusion that I have to know it right now.
It felt like my world collapsed and I had a breakdown.
I waited for her in our Apartment to confront her with a screenshot. First she denied everything but then she admitted that she cheated on me with several different dudes over the last year because she needed the attention and the last time she cheated was on my birthday, thats why she was running late for my Party.
Of course I broke up with her I packed some things and drove to my friends house.
But thats not even the worst, my best friend of 20 years called me a few days later and asked me if I wanna grab a few cold ones and ofc I said yes, I really needed him and besides that, he was acting strange the last weeks and I wanted to ask him if everything is alright.
Long story short after some beer he told me that he is sleeping with my now ex for a few month now and he was the one she slept with on my birthday.
Then he showed me some Screenshots my ex sent him from at least 15 different dudes saying the she was great in bed.
He started crying and said he is sorry and that he feels like shit. I was frozen like I had no idea what I should say now. I got angry and smashed a bottle on his wall.
3 minutes after I started screaming at him, my ex called him and he kicked me out because she needed him at the Apartment.