I recently found out that my girlfriend of one year doesn’t change her underwear. How do I tell my girlfriend she should be changing her underwear everyday without hurting her feelings?
I was staying the night at my girlfriends house when I noticed she didn’t change her underwear. I asked why she didn’t do it and she very quickly got insecure and embarrassed.
She asked if I thought it was weird so I told her if it’s normal for girls to not change underwear then it’s not weird, I was just raised by mom to change everyday so it caught my attention.
I know it’s very normal for girls to switch their bras only once or twice a week so I didn’t think much of it. She goes about 4 days before switching to a new pair of underwear.
More recently, I looked it up and found that women should be changing their underwear everyday as well for hygienic reasons.
How can I bring this up to her without hurting her feelings as she is clearly insecure about it? It doesn’t gross me out but it definitely makes me a bit uncomfortable, I don’t wish to hurt her feelings though.
Should I just ignore it or say something? I’m not sure exactly what to do.