I really don’t want to be an a**hole and learn the new aged bad habit of ghosting. However, I broke up with my ex gf three months ago and roughly once every five days she will call me or message me over random stuff, you know the kind to test the water and start a conversation, but with no real purpose sort.
Twice out of the many times, she also used this as a chance to start a random fight with me.
The reason we broke up was that she was abusive and I could not deal with it so even though it was a long term relationship, after thinking for many months, I felt we had no future together so called it off. Could it be because she is a narcissist and couldn’t stand the fact that I broke up with her? She even randomly texted me to say if people ask this is a mutual breakup.
To me, she can say whatever she wants, like how is this even important?
Thoughts people?