Hi guys, please help an insecure girl out
Is it normal for a guy to go for days without texting their partner and not celebrating valentine’s day nor anniversaries (not even mentioning it through text)?
For context, I’ve been with my partner for a year and this is my first relationship. Being a total noob, I tried my best to show my appreciation for him with either notes or small gifts but I’m met with kinda lukewarm responses.
The fact that we have to keep our relationship low-profile due to circumstances doesn’t really help my insecurity too.
I’ve tried telling him that I need more reassurance and security but I don’t think this is something that he will/can change for me.
However, when we do go out, I feel so happy and secure. I’ve tried reasoning it out by myself, thinking about how maybe he’s just busy, not a romantic person or just has bad memory…but it doesn’t make me feel any better.
It’s scary to think about the future when the initial feelings fizzle out too. What can I do to solve this problem?
Thanks for listening to my semi-rant too