I went clubbing and I randomly got kissed by a girl, my gf says it’s my fault and broke up with me after 4 years. What should I do?
Hello everyone, I (22 M) went clubbing with one of my friends (21 M). We go clubbing every two weeks, to have kind of a guys night.
My friend is single which plays a part in this story. We were standing outside for a smoke when suddenly two girls approached us and asked for a cigarette.
We got into a bit of small talk nothing flirty from my side, while one of the girls kinda flirted with my friend (I supported it, since I know he’s upset that he ain’t in a relationship).
While they were talking, I got into a conversation with the other girl and we were talking about family since they were hiding the fact from their parents that they’re clubbing (strict family, just like mine, so it was a really polite conversation).
After that we went inside all together, we went near the bar, so I was just standing there getting something to drink, while I was doing that, I saw my friend making out with that one girl.
Her friend (the one that was talking to me about her family) came over to me and told me that she didn’t expect that, so I was just saying that me neither since my friend is such an introvert normally, we had a good laugh because of that conversation.
Suddenly she tried to kiss me but I just turned my head away (she still achieved to kiss my cheek) and pushed her slightly away, my friend did the same after he noticed and she apologized and went along.
I told my GF that yesterday and she believes that there was some flirting going on. Since I didn’t drink I can truthfully say that there was nothing going on and nothing could’ve been misunderstood, I even think that girl just thought f it let’s do it.
My now ex-GF broke up with me after 4 years and believes it’s my fault. She thinks I messed up and that she had enough of me.
Can someone please help me? I really wanna fight for her, but she told me that the kiss of that girl hurt her more than breaking off contact with me.
Thanks in advance everyone!