A Singaporean guy recently posted on Facebook that he is happy to be engaged to a girl who he’s not sexually attracted to. He stated on how his exes liked to play mind games with him and how they would whine if they did not get what they want.
Here is the full story.
I’m engaged to a girl whom I’m not sexually attracted to… And I’ve never been happier all my life.I’m a normal, healthy virile guy, and she’s my best friend in the entire world.
We’ve never had a major argument even after being together for 4 years. She plays every single game I play, be it MOBA, FPS, RPG or RTS. She happily plays support or heal roles, and attends STGCC with me every year. She checks on my happiness, mental health and always asks if I’ve slept well and eaten well. She smiles at me like I’m her everything and I love her to death. She’s on the chubby side, her teeth are a little yellow, she has eczema and her some times she has bad breath.
But I will always pick her over my exes, who were beautiful, popular and had really hot bodies. Because they were ultimately toxic, they played mind games, they took their anger out on me, they threw fits when they find my gifts “not the brand they want”, or when we dined at Swensens instead of Yardbird. They got upset when it’s Sakae Sushi instead of Itacho. They were great in bed but bitched incessantly about me to their girlfriends over the smallest things like me saying I can’t fetch them because I have to send my grandparents home.
I know my friends secretly think that I can do a lot better, given that I’m considered quite a catch for a guy. But I’ve learnt my lesson. Desires can be quenched with self-pleasure, but there’s nothing as fulfilling in the world as a woman who’s genuinely your best friend, whom you will never fight with or have to placate, and who lifts you up day after day and cherishes you without reservations. Whenever I feel down I KNOW she will be there to make me feel better, instead of adding on to my stress.
I am finally happy with where I am in life :’)