I am average looking (and below average looking when not dressed properly) introverted guy. When I was in university, all girls would try to ignore me and play with party guys.
They would get close to me only when they needed some help in solving their assignments or preparing for a difficult exam.
It was a hard feeling to get ignored because of your looks and also financial status (I come from a low income family).
But whenever we had interactions, conversations went really well with a lot of laughter, since I can make good jokes. I had some crushes but always got ignored by them and they always opted for better looking guys.
Since graduation, I have been working in top notch organizations and providing consulting services to some other as well, I am making more than 200k per annum including gains from investments.
Now things are getting very excited. The kind of girls who tried to ignore are deliberately trying to put effort in getting close to me.
When the girls were young they were enjoying their time (and getting messed up with party guys) and now since we are approaching 30s, they try to get a stable man for marriage.
I am not feeling attracted to even the prettiest of the girls among them because I have seen them in their peak youth and now wrinkles start to appear on their skin and some girls have started to have grey hairs as well.
It was sad when they all were partying and I was getting ignored. I had some crushes at that time and despite of putting a lot of effort, there was no success.
They were happy to be friends and enjoy their time with me because I am easy going person with good sense of humor. Also they could get a lot of help from me in their studies. But for dating, they were not interested in me.
Now, many girls are trying to get close to me and I am more interested in just sleeping with them rather than giving my 100%.
There was a time when I had crush on a girl and I was willing to give more than my 100%, always thinking about her, talking to her, making her feel happy but she was into some other guy.
Now after getting dumped from her ex-bf after 5 years, she is putting a lot of effort to get close to me. She lost peak of her youth, and I have bitter memories how I was ignored when she was blind in love with ex-bf.
Recently, I got close to her just to screw her. I dumped her after sleeping with her couple of times.
Similarly, two months ago, I was having BBQ party with my friends at my condo. I posted story on Instagram and it included some visuals of the place where I am staying.
After watching this, one of my school batchmate started to get close to me. We met a couple of times, and I slept with her for next few weeks and left her because I am not having those vibes now.
These girls wasted their peak on wrong guys, and want me to take them as leftover bread. I am happy single also I am getting some action easily now with many different girls. There are many other experiences like this but I would not like to make this post very long for you guys.
In conclusion, I would agree with you that money talks.