For context I’m 26M, single and have only ever had one serious relationship. Ended amicably, reason being LDR
This started during CNY, where the relatives all reciprocated my Happy Chinese New Year with ‘I hope you meet a nice girl this year’s.
This was the first year where my marital status came up as a subject, and I finally realized that being closer to 30 rather than 20, I’d have to field this question in years to come.
I’ve also come to realize that I have kind of lost the ability to develop feelings for people. To preface, I don’t go around meeting people with the sole intention to date.
Friends have tried to set me up, but i would either say no (for fear of disappointing their friend) or it would be very cordial.
I just don’t feel the excitement and curiosity of meeting and getting to know someone new.
I was just wondering if any comrade has gone through the same phase. And what got you back into the dating scene
Ps, please don’t suggest dating apps, I feel bad for ghosting the people I do match with. Sorry for the rant