I(M) have a crush on a friend(F) from uni, we texted almost every day, she’s usually the one to initiate a convo, and we occasionally hang out one to one together.
Recently, after a day together, we were texting and she suddenly asked me if I have a crush on her, I was, of course, taken aback as I did not realize that she had already caught on.
Then she asked why am I suddenly so quiet, and that it’s scary, I don’t think I’m scaring her, I assume it was her being nervous about my answer.
So I confirmed my feelings, and then I reassured her that I wouldn’t try anything funny, I assumed the feelings aren’t mutual so I’m ready to face rejection.
But surprisingly, she didn’t reject me outright and told me when she started noticing my interest and etc. After that, our convo resumed back to other topics. she’s a pretty shy person so I’m not sure if she’s trying to give me the green light or not. Also, can anyone let me know when a girl knows that a guy likes her, does she gets disgusted about him, or if not, what is actually going through her head?
Does this mean she has an interest or even a slight interest in me? I’m pretty confused.
Here are what netizens think:
- If I don’t like someone I would continue to imagine that he’s just a nice friend. Also I think if she doesn’t care about what u think she wouldn’t find your silence “scary” why you immediately assume the feelings aren’t mutual without ASKING bruh
- This green light so bright that you should almost be blinded by it however please don’t hold her hand or try to give her a kiss to gauge her interest level like what some commenters have said. If she’s as shy as you say, that will scare her and it gives off major creep vibes. Just ask her out on a date!
- So sweet. Cross the road, hold her hand. Don’t let go. See how she react. If she act shy or super happy. Congrats.
- Sorry bro. If she was, she would be straightforward. Cos she can be straightforward asking u the question so why so ambivalent after your response? She’s on the fence for 2 possible reasons: she has no other guy interested right now so u are her entertainment for the time being or she treasure this friendship and want to let u down slowly. U should prob reconsider.