A man shared how he met a married man who shared the same interests as him at an event about 3 years ago.
They hit it off and the married man got drunk and said if he was gay, he would be with him.
2 years later, they went to a friend’s wedding overseas and shared a hotel room.
They got drunk and kissed and spooned on the bed.
Here is the full story:
“I am gay.
About three years ago I met this man in an event and we hit it off right away because we have same interests in business, whisky, watches and cars. I later learned that he was married with a son.
We continued being friends and he often came to my place for dinner, drinks and chat til very late. When he was tipsy he once mentioned that he would want to be with me if he were gay. I took that as a compliment and we just stayed friends.
About two years ago, he went with me to a friend’s wedding overseas. We shared a bed in a nice hotel and after drinking and partying we ended up kissing (with tongues!) throughout the night til we both fell asleep.
The next morning, he spooned me. I almost went down on him but we stopped. We are still friends til today and he has been nothing but caring and sweet.
I have been thinking a lot about him since he came over to my staycation, bought me a cake for my belated birthday. I kissed him on his cheeks that nite. I think I am in love with him. It is not just about the lust because he really is hot.
A man like him is what I hope to end up with one day. He never posted any picture of his son and wife on his social media at all. When I once asked him about his sex life, he just said it was dull.
Please do not judge me. I am not a home wrecker or delusional gay man. But I am pretty sure there is something between us and what I feel for him is not one-sided.
Should I continue brushing it off or should I talk to him about it?”
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