My girlfriend might be pregnant with someone else’s child
TL;DR: me [22M] and my gf [23F] are terrified she might be pregnant after a hookup gone wrong
So some context, me and my girlfriend are in an open relationship. We have full veto power over each other’s partners.
The story: So me, 22M and my girlfriend 23F. Have been together for 8 months. Recently she was hooking up with a new friend of hers, he was a bit insistent on not using a condom which made us a little worried. We ultimately decided to go ahead. and the condom suspiciously “broke” while they were in bed.
We’re really worried she might be pregnant. She took plan B but is a bit on the heavier side so effectiveness is iffy at best. It’s only been around a week so we don’t know for sure yet.
She’s moving into my parents house with me in a few days. And I’m TERRIFIED she might be pregnant. We’ve talked about abortion but she doesn’t know yet and of course it’s entirely her choice and I’ll never pressure one way or the other. (Of course I have my own thoughts, but I won’t share them unless she asks)
Right now I’m TERRFIED she’ll decide to keep it. If she does she’ll almost definitely be kicked out of my parents house and I’ll have to change my entire life or leave her. Either one scares me, I love her with all my heart and told her I’d be by her side no matter what. But I also tour 3-6 months a year so I would have to go back to school to change careers.
I would love some advice on any part of this situation