The guy who I like, likes me back. But, But, But, he openly says he is afraid of me. He hates the fact that I exhibit self esteem a way too much and he dislikes this.
So, I met a guy in school who I used to like. At our farewell, he revealed his feelings to me and since then, I am in regular touch with him.
Yesterday, he said that I hold a very high self esteem and he is afraid of me. He said, “it would be better if you slow down.”
I didn’t understand him then, but he called me later on the same day saying, ” You exhibit way more power and I don’t like that. Reason, I never kissed you or initiated any physical gesture. It makes me irk if you show any sort of power. I will not like it.”
Do I need initiate any talk further or should I completely stop talking to him?
I need advice.
- Major red flag. He doesn’t like this because that will make it harder for him to “control” you.
- Stop all communication with this person. Do not make an effort to keep them in your life.And please for the love of the gods heed these words of advice that I never did: “Do not dull your shine to make anyone comfortable”