This might sound like a rant, but I promise I’m not bitter, just disheartened. Had been talking to a lovely lady on a dating app, and things were going incredibly well.
We’ve talked on the phone for hours, and just really vibed. She told me multiple times I was incredibly sweet and funny, and that she was looking forward to going out with me IRL.
She’s pregnant, and had a craving for food (and possibly more), so i grabbed dinner and took a taxi to go see her, thought it would be a cute first date.
When I got there she took the food, thanked me, and said I look 10 years older than my profile pic, and slightly heavier, then asked if I can leave.
Now, the picture IS about a year old, and I am heavier than in the pic, but I literally told her my weight and warned her of my “dad bod” on the phone, and she just laughed and talked about her mom bod.
She also said I look like a “completely different person”, and no one else has ever said that before.
I didn’t really know what to say, so I apologized and left. I deleted my account on the dating app, but not before I noticed she blocked me. I’m compelled to give some advice:
TLDR; You don’t have to be good looking, but physically fit always trumps sweet and funny, even if it’s only by a bit. Also, if you’re going on a date, look better irl than in your profile pic.
Netizens’ comments
- I think you got used for food by a pregnant lady..
- This has nothing to do with you, it’s just a scam. You could look like Jackson Wang and it wouldn’t matter, she was just using you for free food.
- Imma jump in here and confirm.. you got scammed for free food.
Had nothing to do with you or your looks, and everything to do with you seemed nice enough to fall for it.
Sorry you got taken advantage of! Hope you have better luck in the future.