A guy shared how he was in an all boys school all his life and never had the opportunity to meet girls and now he has given up on finding a girlfriend.
Here is the story:
“I was in an all boys school all my life. So obviously never had the opportunity to meet girls. Then come to poly, I was still relatively looking the same as I was before (nerdy looking, overweight) so girls never showed interest anyway, I’ve had 3 friends who are girls who all shared the same sentiments that women in general don’t go for nice guys, but more of the opposite.
Since poly till now, I have changed. Look different. Dress different. Lost weight. Put myself out there on online dating apps, and literally nothing. Lack of matches. The matches I get, either don’t respond or they’re looking to get their egos boosted.
I keep reading all this stuff about other guys going on dates with women, and how they’re expected to pay for everything, or how men are supposed to pick up hints from women *if* they are interested. I just find that so childish that men are expected to pay for everything in a day and age that ‘people vouch for gender equality.’
Anyways, all my classes are online. Which means I still haven’t socialised / interacted with women.
I’ve completely given up. It’s just never enough as a man. You can be the best version of yourself, and you’ll still struggle. It’s not worth the trouble and stress.”