My girlfriend always teases and plays with me when I we get physically intimate, and I don’t like it.
For example, I lean for a kiss, and she turns away. Then, of course, my mood is ruined and I stop, and don’t want to show any physical affection to her. She then leans herself and kisses me passionately.
Or when I’m having sex with her, I love a nice foreplay. I get open, I get in touch with my feelings, I do what want, I get excited, I’m gentle with this woman, I admire her body. And what she does at that moment of my weakness (basically) is look at me, like, I’m an idiot, like, ‘why is your face so serious?’
Like?… man
And I lose that sense of connection, I lose that moment, and get pissed off, because, like, what am I doing wrong?
I expressed those feelings to her, lately even more, and what I got is basically she wants to make it more interesting
And she wants to get me to basically screw her brains out, she wants me to do it rough. Like, she turns away, teases me, expect me to be mad and just take her and do it rough.
But dude, to me it seems, she’s just scared of her feelings and not living in the moment, like I do.
What do y’all think about this?
I don’t like this at all, I think it’s a bad dynamic in a relationship
Thank you
edit: When I tease her the way she does, she gets mad
Also I should say, she wants a baby BAD
So I can’t help but think, she just tries to ‘tie’ me to her, to have a baby with her accidentally and unknowingly, in the spur of the moment