A netizen shared how his girlfriend prioritize her family over him and once told him: “Who are you? You are my boyfriend only!”
Here is the story:
“My girlfriend of three years has a very strong bond with her family, including her relatives, there’s nothing wrong with that. But she prioritizes most of her family’s matters over mine. There’s nothing wrong with that, but I feel that sometimes she should consider my feelings over what she should have done as a girlfriend. Let me give a few examples
Firstly, whenever we go out, she will always be on her phone, chatting with her family members, or commenting on their stuff, especially during dinner time, she will make phone calls and chat through the entire session while eating, and I feel like I am eating alone cause she’s too focused on them.
Secondly, whenever she’s out with her family members, she will not reply to me as much as she reply to them when she was with me.
Thirdly, during the festive season like Christmas day, she chose to celebrate with her sisters instead of me. The reason she gave is, I don’t celebrate Christmas! What kind of nonsense is this? I do want to at least have dinner with my gf during all these festivals.
I do express my concerns to her, her response was, ????so? don’t teach me what I want to do.. who are you ??? You are my boyfriend only…
Add on – she says the family is more important because there is only one family and when her boyfriend disappears she can still find but if her family disappears she can no longer find like her family
Tell me, am I in any wrong telling her these etc?”
Editor’s note: Marry her and you will become her family also.