A girl shared about how her boyfriend is very insecure and would get mad at her for going out to drink.
She said that she has had exes and serious dates in the past and that she is more “s*xually experienced” than him, which makes him think that she would sleep around.
She shared that he would get upset when she goes out to drink with her friends.
You can read her post in full below:
“Need some advice here.
My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years but he still doesn’t trust me. Before you go on to say that he doesn’t trust me because of something I did, no I didn’t cheat or do anything even close to cheating.
Throughout the past 2 years, I have been 100% loyal to him. No odd messages or unnecessary one on one meet ups with the opp gender.
He knows every single one of my friends (I usually keep to a small circle of friends) and I tell him everything. I meet him almost everyday and we video call (instead of voice call) so there is literally no secrets between us.
Before him, I’ve had exes and serious dates and so I’m more sexually experienced than him even though he’s older than me.
Is it reasonable for him to feel that I have the tendency to sleep around just because of that? I don’t. So now every time I go out to drink with my friends (which is prolly like once in 3 months), he gets all upset.
I had drinks with my colleagues the other day and ended up vomiting because of excessive yakult. Yes, my yakult soju’s ratio was prolly 3 yakult to 1 soju.
So I texted him “I vomited :(“
He didn’t respond and only said “rest well b” the next morning.
Turns out he got mad at me because of that vomiting saga and was having second thoughts about our bto plans. Wtff. I showed him the messages in my group chat where my colleagues apologised for leaving me to clean up alone because I was the only one conscious and yet he remained upset about me drinking.
I do love him but I’m getting sick and tired of his insecurity. I feel like I have done everything to make a guy secure and Idk what more can I do to help the situation.
Honestly I feel that my drinking frequency is pretty mild and such hangouts are unavoidable in the corporate world.
What should I do???”
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