Sort of new to dating, is this a red flag?
I went on a first date with this guy who seemed immediately into me. We made out like an hour into the date and he asked to see me again.
Later on in the first date, he told me he wanted to tell me his body count to “get it out of the way”, and told me he has been with 63 women.
He’s only 25, and that number seems a little high, but I’m not going to judge someone’s past. I do think it’s odd he is counting, but maybe guys are different.
What I’m worried about is he also said he never uses condoms, but gets tested regularly. I recently got screened and did all the tests, blood work and everything.
I doubt he does that each time. I mentioned I’d like to use condoms until we maybe become more exclusive. We went on a second date and he’s laying on thick how he wants to keep seeing me. His actions on the first date (discussing his body count) makes me think he’s just trying to get something out of me.
Is this behavior common in dating? Or am I just being sort of prude?
Netizens’ comments
- Unless you just want a hookup and to be remembered as #64 when he starts working on #65 in a week or two, then I think it’s a red flag.
- It could be an overstatement or that could be his real body count, that makes no difference if you’re just trying to hookup. Regarding using protection, you should do how you prefer and not just agree to something or let yourself be coerced here.
- He’s probably a great lay! But STAY AWAY FROM dating him. He’s for the streets.
- I had expirence with casually dating different types of guys. I must say, not all guys are like this. If its only your first date, and he is already making the conversation so obscene, he wants nothing but to get in your pants. I mean if that’s what you want too go for it. But if you’re looking for a long term serious relationship. Dump him and find someone who is capable to give you that.