Girlfriend spends too much time with work
Hi everyone, I’m typing this on a date right now as my girlfriend is currently replying to work texts, and would like your opinions on this situation.
My girlfriend has just changed into a new job and is really busy with replying texts to the point of constantly being on the phone during our dates, even on weekends.
I understand that it is a new job and she wants to put her best foot forward, as I have previously did the same as well, replying to work during our dates.
As it is work-related and sometimes urgent, I also get that she feels the need to reply immediately. But I feel like work is really eating into her life and our dates.
Will it be unreasonable to ask her to have her be more focused during our dates and not work?
- If she just started the new work only, you should just support her~
Unless it’s still like this 6 months down the road, then her job seriously has issue and you need to talk to her about it
- Considering you did the exact same thing, where she presumably put up with it, I’d say expecting her not to do it is unfair, if not unreasonable. Not gonna go down well if I’m the gf.
- I think that you should be proud of your girlfriend for putting in effort into her work. Having a positive and diligent attitude is important for someone entering into a new job.