A guy shared how he has been on dating apps and going out with girls but they always give him false hope and stop replying him after the date.
Here is the story
Just a bit of a rant, but I would also like to hear your thoughts on this. I’ve been on dating apps and met some girls for dates.
The thing which I’ve noticed happen is that some girls would agree for a subsequent date (after one or few dates), only to not get back to me (when they said they’ll check which days they’re free and get back to me etc.) when they said they would.
Wouldn’t it make more sense for the girl to just say that they don’t see it going further, and let the guy know that they would not want to meet again?
It is quite disrespectful, and gives false hopes (especially when they reply with much positive energy when agreeing to meet again).
I see them not getting back to me as a sign that they’re clearly not interested so I wouldn’t want to send follow-up messages asking if they know when they’re free already etc.
But I would had much rather they be more respectful and not do things like this.
Not all girls are like that of course. I’ve had some girls who let me know when they didn’t want to meet again, and I really appreciate that.