[M23] Just realized that I’m more unattractive than I thought
So after spending 3 years on tinder and never getting a single match that must mean that I’m more unattractive than I thought.
I have never had a woman approach me and even online when I talk to girls they always ghost me and disappear as soon as I share my face pictures.
I do try my hardest to look good, Im tall and athletic but my face is just ugly. I feel as if I’ll have to use money in order to get laid or get a wife.
By the way don’t say “but women don’t go for looks” its nonsense because they do and if a woman doesn’t care about looks then I wouldn’t want to be with her anyway.
- That means you’re under the 10-20% of men, women are focusing on.. yes.. that still leaves 80-90% of men that you may be more attractive than.. perspective dude. Glass half full?
- You sound like you deserve someone as superficial as you are.
- Marylin Monroe once said: there are no ugly girls, just girls who are not trying. The same but double goes for men. You are doing a good job by going to the gym.
How much effort do you put in your grooming? Clothing, haircut, accessories, light make-up.
Get professional pictures done. It will make a world of difference.
And lastly change your mindset, it will make you and your future gf happier. It’s not all about looks. Be successful and respectable, kind and caring and self-sufficient. You can be a great partner also with a fugly face.