A netizen shared how he regrets spending $1000 gift for a girl that doesn’t seem to reciprocate his feelings.
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I spent $1000 yesterday on gifts for this girl I’ve been talking to for a month.
I regret it so much and I feel like crap because of it due to the fact that she’s not really enthusiastic about today at all even though I asked her on Thursday if she wanted to be my gf.
She had sent a lot of mixed signals these past few weeks and tagged me in cringey (but cute) lovey dove IG posts about love and it was obvious there was a spark there.
The one problem is that she has pretty strict parents and got into a long argument with her mom which prevented her from being able to go out today.
I’m kinda catching on that she may just be making excuses to not see me since I can literally just drive there.
I had made the realization that there’s nothing I could do about it but I could still drop the gifts off to her after school. But today she isn’t really enthusiastic at all and it’s pretty clear she’s not matching my energy today for some reason and now I’m starting to seriously regret being a moron and spending that much on gifts.
I even told her I needed to drop off something but she responded with a pretty dry and unenthusiastic response and I started to regret it at that moment and I immediately lost all feelings I had for her at that point since she gives no effort.
Luckily, nobody knows I spent anything on gifts so it saved me the social embarrassment but here I am feeling like a broke clown on the inside.
This is by far the worst day I’ve ever had because not only am I lonely, I’m also broke (yes you can flame me all you want in the comments about spending what I had as a broke teenager on a girl.)
The only thing making me feel better is that I’m going to be giving away the candies I bought for her to my friends and I have another friend who desperately needs flowers for his girlfriend so I’m going to spare him from having to spend last minute money on flowers and give the ones I bought for her to him.