I have insecurities about how I look. I always thought I look decent, until I get rejected by a girl that I have a crush on. Now that I look into the mirror, I realise I have many flaws.
Asymmetrical face, acnes, dull eyes etc. I’m beaten, I don’t have a good personality to back up how average I look. I’m a poor student, make over or trying new hairstyle to compensate my face feature is not an option. I feel the Dunning-Kruger effect reflects on me, I thought I’m well-mannered, look good in front of others, but in the end after taking a video of myself, I realised I act like I have ADHD.
I’m super conscious of everything around me recently, and I feel I’m mad. I’m obsessed with finding articles that lie to me that I’m actually more attractive than I thought I am. Never dated a girl before, never held a girl’s hand after primary school, I can’t change the face I’m born with.
Girls, please be more open and tell guys how you feel if you don’t find him attractive. Don’t treat us as spare tires, guys aren’t born mentally strong, we are made to be mentally strong.
The feeling of being on hold is torturing.
Here are what netizens think:
- Not to be harsh eh, just from one guy to another. Of course it’s very easy to be caught up in alot of these superficial things like looks. In the initial chasing process, looks play a decently huge factor. But in the end, healthy retention of a relationship is due to your or her’s personality. Don’t be so obsessed with looks or how you portray yourself that you forget about what truly makes you you, your personality, your passions etc.
- When your rich your more handsome than andy lau
- Cannot find girls then find boys lor
- You can probably fix most of your “problems” by correcting your mindset and how you feel about yourself. Face the truth about where you are right now, and decide where you want to be tomorrow, and repeat it day by day. Consistency is hard, but worth it.